Open your cupboard door, grab a can of soup, warm up and eat; sounds simple enough but for many individuals that is not simple at all. In today’s society hunger is an ongoing issue for many individuals and families. According to the article “Spatial variation in poverty-generating processes: Child poverty in the United States” (Katherine J. Curtis, 2012) there are 43 million Americans that live in poverty everyday. There has been an increase in the levels of poverty among the younger population since the 1990’s and I was one of those populations.
One of my earliest memories of shame is of a Friday in second grade, I was getting ready to go home and a teacher asked me what I was doing for the weekend. I tell her that our food stamps have arrived and we are going to get groceries this weekend. She leaned in and whispered to me that maybe I shouldn’t say that so loud. I fled home with cheeks burning, eyes blurred from tears and a heaviness in my chest. I have always remembered that day, the feeling that I need to hide my life from others,
I remember throughout my childhood and life hiding my poverty from friends and co-workers, the embarrassment I felt when discussing weekend plans and not being able to join because of no extra funds. The first time I went to a food shelf I had to sit in my car for 2 hours crying before I could actually go in to get help and it took me two days before I could decide to eat the food and not return it to the food shelf.
I worked my way up economically and was doing well until I became pregnant and the pregnancy sickness required bed rest leading me to lose my job and go back to being one of the populations affected by poverty. This time I was able to utilize WIC (Women, Infants and Children) food supplements and once the baby arrived I qualified for food assistance through the SNAP program and cash assistance. In the state of Minnesota the maximum amount of cash assistance a 2-person household can receive is $437.00 and food stamps is $327.00. It was difficult to provide a stable environment for my child and myself with that amount of assistance even living with a relative who owned a home and provided economic assistance.
I choose to review poverty in the United States because I was and am a person who navigates the poverty cycle of loss and attempts to utilize resources in the United States. The resources available are food stamps, food shelves, some cash assistance for people who are not making over $1100.00 a month, assistance from Salvation Army vouchers, assistance programs through United Way, free and reduced lunch programs in schools, backpack programs that send food home with kids on the weekends and other private funding. There has been a new phenomenon taking place through social networking such as Facebook where individuals in an area create groups connecting them with others to share items such as clothing, furniture, household items and sometimes food. These groups are a great resource of information and place to make friends you can turn to in times of needs.
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Katherine J. Curtis, P. R. (2012, August 11). Spatial variation in poverty-generating processes: Child poverty in the United States. Social Science Research .
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ReplyDeleteHi Stephanie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that you had to go through that experience as a child. I'm sure your teacher thought she was protecting you, but in reality, she was perpetuating unnecessary shame and embarrassment surrounding the utilization of public assistance. I've spoken out in this class about normalizing breastfeeding and I think a lot of the same techniques can be used to normalize the utilization of public assistance. Families should not feel guilt or shame about feeding their families; they should not feel that they need to shop late or look for the least judgmental cashier before taking out their WIC vouchers. You mentioned that facebook is being used in a positive manner to seek out donations for families and organizations in need, which is fantastic. On the other hand, social media has been quite damaging to social service agencies in the sense that it is so easy to spread misinformation. I'm sure most of us have seen the photo with the LINK card purchase of steaks and lobsters. That is used to perpetuate the idea that people don't need SNAP- they just use it to buy fancy food or to trade for cash to spend on other things. Not only does this embarrass the people who do have SNAP, it may also prohibit families who really need food to feed their families or money to pay their rent from seeking out services. It's an unfortunate situation but we can help by speaking out.
Sorry for the long rant!
Hi Stephanie,
ReplyDeleteIt is a shame that our country sees being on welfare as a bad thing. It is a bad thing, if people are just sitting on their butts, not even trying to get a job, or having more and more children, because they receive more and more money. Those people don't "deserve" to be on welfare. However, in your case, bedrest causing you to lose your job, is why the program exists in the first place. They don't want mothers and children starving. I am sorry that you had to go through that experience, especially when the teacher told you not to say that. You should not have felt ashamed. Do you know how another country handles poverty?
Jen
Steph,
ReplyDeleteI appreciate that you are able to share your experiences. It amazes me how people are so quick to judge when no one is perfect. Each one of us has a story to tell, some choose to tell and others hide it. Hiding things may cause one to miss out. I look as the WIC and other programs that help others as a resource to help sustain a life. Why have a program in place if people are afraid to utilize it because of the stigma that it causes.
Stephanie, yes just going to your cupboard and grab something to eat does sound simple and for most people it is simple. But I agree with you that hunger is an on going issue for many. I am sorry to hear about you having to go through poverty in your life. Here in South Carolina we also have WIC(Women, Infants , and Children) program, we have snap (food stamps), Food Banks that can help people that are having problems or need assistance. I did have to go on Food Stamps once in my life and it came from me not having a job and no money coming in. But I want say that I did not ever have to say that I was in Poverty because I did have a little money saved up.
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